What's the deal about women.

I must say, feminism isn't the problem of women but of men. Men who believe that the world should originally revolve around their circumference. The moment a women strikes the match box she ultimately becomes a threat to men. I sincerely have a problem with the conservative ingredients inherent in our traditional belief. Why must a woman exist under the watchful eyes of a man? Why must what women wear generate a lot of controvesy. Why must I be judged by the success of my marriage? Do women even get a cookie for trying. When once a woman's marriage fails all accusing fingers poke at the tender faces of her womanhood. Do people ask questions about the chauvinistic and egoistic contents of a man's makeup. Why should it be a woman that should submit? Can't submission be done by both parties.